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Somewhat Congruent + Aggressively Human

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I am in the process of creating her own corner of the internet, please check it out at SomewhatCongruentSoul.com

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Aggressively Human is the ongoing, unfiltered extension of my writing.

Unlike the Somewhat Congruent newsletter, which delivers short-ish, reflective insights, this page is for longer essays, bold reflections, and stories I can’t send in an email.
It’s where invisible labor, mental load, and the messy truths of life live in full view.

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Aggressively Human is separate, but complementary… think of it as the “full story” and unfiltered version of some of the insights you’ve read.

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Aggressively Human: The Bloody Mental Load No One Sees

A bloody tampon and a missing trash bag revealed the invisible labor I’d been carrying for years and the mental load I finally stopped absorbing.