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Weekly-ish reflections from real life: overthinking, people-pleasing, nervous system overload, boundary struggles, identity spirals, and the quiet moments where things finally start to make sense.

If you’re someone who thinks deeply, feels a lot, and sometimes gets stuck trying to “figure it out” in your head…

This is for you.

This isn’t productivity advice or “fix yourself in 5 steps.”

It’s pattern-noticing, meaning-making, and learning how to respond instead of spiraling.

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Midol, Dunkin’, and a One-Degree Shift

Midol, Dunkin’, and a One-Degree Shift

On Friday the 13th, I asked my dad to buy me Midol.
It sounds small. It wasn’t.

What followed was a one-degree shift in a story I’d been carrying since I was 13 — about periods, discomfort, and handling everything alone. Sometimes healing isn’t dramatic. Sometimes it’s just asking one more time.

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