Graphic design with a green background, white crescent moon, hexagon, four stars, and the words "Somewhat Congruent" in yellow and white, with "The Archive" in pink.

A collection of honest, Somewhat Congruent reflections on boundaries, burnout, identity, and learning to trust yourself in real time.

No fixing.
No pretending.
Just noticing, recalibrating, and taking the next honest step.

Read through the insights. Take what resonates. Leave the rest.

Coming Soon:

An Even More Aggressively Human Version

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Candice Coughenour 2/25/26 Candice Coughenour 2/25/26

Everything Works Out in My Favor (Even When It Annoys Me)

I can be annoyed that I had to repaint my kitchen and be deeply grateful for the men who rebuilt it. Congruency is holding both. It doesn’t have to be all or nothing. It can be learning and loving….at the same time.

Candice Coughenour 12/27/25 Candice Coughenour 12/27/25

A little hope for the short, dark days ahead

Learn practical ways to combat Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD) and boost your mood this winter. Tips for mindful routines, light therapy, and self-care to help overthinkers and sensitive adults thrive.

Candice Coughenour 6/19/19 Candice Coughenour 6/19/19

More Than One Thing Can Be True at a Time

Struggling with overthinking, people-pleasing, or all-or-nothing thinking? Learn why more than one thing can be true at a time and how this shift reduces guilt, burnout, and emotional overwhelm.