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A collection of honest, Somewhat Congruent reflections on boundaries, burnout, identity, and learning to trust yourself in real time.

No fixing.
No pretending.
Just noticing, recalibrating, and taking the next honest step.

Read through the insights. Take what resonates. Leave the rest.

Coming Soon:

An Even More Aggressively Human Version

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I don’t know about snake oil, but I sure have snake milk

As the Year of the Snake comes to a close, I’m reflecting on truth, shedding old patterns, and the grief and gratitude that come with growth. Preparing for the Year of the Horse means releasing what no longer fits and stepping forward aligned, even when it’s uncomfortable.

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When Your Expectations Need A Reality Check

I keep relearning the same lesson in new ways. When context changes, my needs change too. This is a reminder to stop pushing through transitions and start honoring what’s actually happening.