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A collection of honest, Somewhat Congruent reflections on boundaries, burnout, identity, and learning to trust yourself in real time.

No fixing.
No pretending.
Just noticing, recalibrating, and taking the next honest step.

Read through the insights. Take what resonates. Leave the rest.

Coming Soon:

An Even More Aggressively Human Version

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Candice Coughenour 1/27/26 Candice Coughenour 1/27/26

When Your Expectations Need A Reality Check

I keep relearning the same lesson in new ways. When context changes, my needs change too. This is a reminder to stop pushing through transitions and start honoring what’s actually happening.

Candice Coughenour 6/19/19 Candice Coughenour 6/19/19

Something Wicked (and Overthought) This Way Comes

Overthinking can turn small worries into full-blown fear spirals. Learn how anxiety, imagination, and “scary emotions” like shame or envy show up — and how bringing awareness can soften their power.