A collection of honest, Somewhat Congruent reflections on boundaries, burnout, identity, and learning to trust yourself in real time.
No fixing.
No pretending.
Just noticing, recalibrating, and taking the next honest step.
Read through the insights. Take what resonates. Leave the rest.
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No Issues Here
Somewhat Congruent is where reflection meets real life.
It’s the space between polished and feral — where I unpack mental load, invisible labor, relationships, and the small shifts that change everything.
Not perfectly aligned.
Just honest.
Stop Calling It Kindness: The Truth About People-Pleasing
People-pleasing sounds kind, but it often means abandoning your own needs, boundaries, and values. When too much of your energy goes toward others, something has to give — and it’s usually you. This reflection explores why people-pleasing feels so exhausting and what it actually costs.
You Don’t Have to Know Before You Begin
“What do you do when you don’t know what to do?”
You guess. You try. You learn. In this reflection on starting a private practice, I share why confidence isn’t about having all the answers…it’s about trusting yourself enough to begin anyway.